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What to when your adhd child’s lies ? Now I am not talking about sneaking out at night I am talking about things like you ask have they done their homework and they say yes and you know they haven’t. One of the many strategies that I teach is called the redo where you give them a chance to come back and answer the question. Now they might still lie and I have lavished strategy for that but by offering them the redo you are getting them to pause and think which is building new neuropathy ways in
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What to when your adhd child’s lies ? Now I am not talking about sneaking out at night I am talking about things like you ask have they done their homework and they say yes and you know they haven’t. One of the many strategies that I teach is called the redo where you give them a chance to come back and answer the question. Now they might still lie and I have lavished strategy for that but by offering them the redo you are getting them to pause and think which is building new neuropathy ways in
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Are you making this mistake ? It goes like this yesterday your child could but today they can’t and you look at this kid and you go this is a won’t not a can’t . I know you are making this mistake because I made it as well . I made it until I learned what adhd is and finally understood it was a deficit of consistency. And when I understood that is when it changed . Folks you are destroying your relationship with your child if you continue to parent them without understanding adhd. I created my 5
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Are you making this mistake ? It goes like this yesterday your child could but today they can’t and you look at this kid and you go this is a won’t not a can’t . I know you are making this mistake because I made it as well . I made it until I learned what adhd is and finally understood it was a deficit of consistency. And when I understood that is when it changed . Folks you are destroying your relationship with your child if you continue to parent them without understanding adhd. I created my 5
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⚡1. It’s not just about focus — it’s about regulating focus, emotions, time, and energy. 2. Hyperfocus is real — sometimes ADHD means too much focus, not too little. 3. Motivation isn’t willpower — ADHD brains run on interest, novelty, and urgency. 4. It’s not laziness — struggles come from executive function challenges, not character. 5. Emotions hit harder — feelings are more intense and harder to regulate | Allison Solomon
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⚡1. It’s not just about focus — it’s about regulating focus, emotions, time, and energy. 2. Hyperfocus is real — sometimes ADHD means too much focus, not too little. 3. Motivation isn’t willpower — ADHD brains run on interest, novelty, and urgency. 4. It’s not laziness — struggles come from executive function challenges, not character. 5. Emotions hit harder — feelings are more intense and harder to regulate | Allison Solomon
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🌟 3 Game-Changing Strategies to Help Your ADHD Child Thrive If you’ve ever gone to bed feeling like you failed at parenting… this is for you. The homework battles. The outbursts that come out of nowhere. The constant reminders that lead to more frustration instead of progress. You’re not broken. Your child’s not broken. You’re both just stuck in a pattern that no one ever taught you how to change. On Sunday, November 9th, 2025, I’m hosting a FREE Masterclass that will change the way you see ADH
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5 HIDDEN COSTS OF PARENTING A CHILD WITH ADHD (No one warns you about these) 1️⃣ The emotional tax You spend years questioning yourself. Am I too strict? Too soft? Failing them? That constant self-doubt is exhausting — and invisible. 2️⃣ The relationship strain ADHD doesn’t just affect your child. It impacts marriages, co-parenting, siblings, and the tone of your entire home. So much energy goes into managing crises that connection gets pushed aside. 3️⃣ The time drain Everything takes longer. M
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Worst ADHD parenting advice ever? 👉 “Don’t take it personally.” WTF… how are we not supposed to take it personally? We have feelings. We get hurt. We get triggered. And yes—sometimes our kid’s words feel like a punch straight to the heart. So let’s get this straight: 💥 You ARE allowed to take it personally. You are human. You are attached. You care deeply. But here’s the part no one teaches you… There are two arrows. Arrow 1: your child’s behaviour Arrow 2: the story you tell yourself about wh
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Accommodations Don’t Fix ADHD — They Bridge the Gap.” You know that list of school accommodations — extra time, quiet room, written instructions, fidgets, flexible seating, reduced homework… It sounds like the answer, right? Like finally someone understands your child. But here’s what no one says out loud: Accommodations don’t fix ADHD. They support the brain your child already has. Because ADHD isn’t about laziness. It’s about lagging skills — in organization, focus, regulation, and follow-thro
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How do I get my adhd child to focus ? Mmm let me guess you have been told by the school if only they would focus more and let me guess you have thought of only he would focus more ? Folks have you heard of the expression garbage on garbage out well that is why you are struggling because ficus is not your child’s challenge. Your child’s challenge is that they don’t try have the skills to perform the task or they would . Kids with adhd struggle with time management, organization, planning , emotio
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5 things you’re being told are “bad behaviour” that are actually ADHD Read this slowly. Because this one changes everything. 1. “They don’t move when you ask.” Not because they’re refusing. Because their brain can’t find the starting line. Initiation is delayed not motivation. 2. “They snap, argue, or talk back instantly.” That’s not attitude. That’s a nervous system going into fight mode the moment pressure shows up. Their brain hears threat before it hears logic. 3. “They hear you… and nothing
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✨ 🚫 Stop Saying These 10 Things to Parents of Kids with ADHD ✨ Parenting a child with ADHD is already hard. What makes it feel unbearable is the constant judgment disguised as “helpful advice.” Here are 10 things parents are tired of hearing: 1️⃣ “Have you tried being more consistent?” 2️⃣ “Aren’t we all a little ADHD?” 3️⃣ “They’ll grow out of it.” 4️⃣ “You just need to discipline better.” 5️⃣ “It’s just a boy thing.” 6️⃣ “You should try…” 7️⃣ “Back in my day, we didn’t have ADHD.” 8️⃣ “Maybe
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💥 When Your ADHD Child (6 or 16) Is Losing It… You’ve got two choices. You can take it personally — yell, threaten, punish. Or you can pause and remember this truth 👇 Your child isn’t giving you a hard time. They’re having a hard time. ADHD isn’t a behaviour problem — it’s a deficit in emotional regulation. Your child isn’t broken. They’re a work in progress, learning skills their brain doesn’t yet have. So in that heated moment, ask yourself: 💭 “Does my child need a limit right now?” 💭 “Or
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It’s hard enough being a parent to a child with ADHD — fighting for accommodations at school, navigating dysregulation at home — without having to carry the weight of everyone’s judgment on top of it. Please 🙏 don’t judge me until you’ve walked in my 👠 shoes. Please don’t tell me how to raise my child. I’m doing the best I can… and so is my child. 💛 Parents of kids with ADHD — I see you. I get you. I’ve got you. 😉 Drop a ❤️ below if you’re tired of the judgment #adhd #adhdawareness #adhdprob
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Time to get painfully real. STOP. Stop reacting to the behaviour. Stop punishing. Stop threatening. Stop bribing. Stop the sticker charts, the consequences, the “If you don’t… then…” speeches. Because here’s the truth nobody told you: You and your child are in a power struggle you will never win. When you chase compliance, your child learns shame. When you use punishment, your child learns blame. When you try to control them, you lose connection with them. And connection is the only thing that c
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Does your child understand how their adhd brain works ? I am betting they don’t because no one sits down and explains it to them . This is such a huge part of my program is helping you to understand their brain so you can explain it to them . Miss this step folks and your child will believe all the labels they have been given and that is who they become . This us a just a snippet from Bootcamp so stop sign up today and let’s help our adhd tweens and teens soar | Allison Solomon
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I am hosting a FREE ADHD Parenting Masterclass, via zoom, and I want to personally invite you. If you’re tired of power struggles, meltdowns (yes, even teen ones), and feeling stuck—this class is for you. In just 1 hour, you’ll learn :✅ What’s the root of your child’s behaviour and it is not hyperactivity impulsivity or inattentiveness ✅ Strategies that you can implement immediately to change things in your home and stop the behaviour challenges 🙋‍♀️Pick your time:Sun, June 1 – 11 AM New York |
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What your adhd child wants teachers to know? Most ADHD kids don’t walk into school wanting to be “the problem.” They walk in already trying to hold it together. Trying to remember. Trying to stay still. Trying not to mess up again. And by the end of the day, many of them leave believing something is wrong with them. So if my ADHD child could say one thing to their teacher, it would be this: 5 things your ADHD child wants their teacher to know 1️⃣ I’m not being difficult — I’m overwhelmed When I
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🔥 5 Things That Quietly DRAIN Your ADHD Child’s Brain (And Why Their Behaviour Makes So Much More Sense Now) If you’ve ever wondered why your child goes from fine → meltdown in seconds… Or why the smallest request turns into a shutdown… Or why they seem SO smart yet SO stuck… This is why. Let’s pull back the curtain on the things nobody told you are draining their ADHD brain all day long: 1. Being Corrected 200 Times a Day You don’t mean to. But ADHD kids hear more: “Stop.” “No.” “Don’t do that
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If “just try harder” actually worked… you wouldn’t be reading this right now. Because you’ve tried. Your child has tried. And still — the meltdowns, the shutdowns, the explosive “NO!”s. This is what happens when ADHD is seen through a behavior lens. We assume the child is: ❌ Not trying ❌ Being disrespectful ❌ Choosing to misbehave But here’s the truth we’re missing: ADHD isn’t about won’t — it’s about can’t (yet). It’s a neurological delay in: 🧠 Self-regulation ⏳ Time management 🎯 Focus ⚙️ Pla
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Why punishment is the most ineffective parenting strategy for kids with adhd? Okay folks tell me this does punishment teach skills . Mmm of course it doesn’t what it teaches is shame and blame . And tell me this is adhd a skill based deficit you know your child has no time management, organization, planning skills or emotional regulation skills. I hope you are dating yes Allison!! So then tell me how does punishing your child solve the problem . It doesn’t you have to be teaching skills now don’
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Will punishing your ADHD child stop the defiance? The rudeness? The forgetfulness? The anger? The procrastination? Let’s be honest for a second. If you have a child whose working memory is weak — meaning their brain literally struggles to recall information (a core ADHD deficit) — then tell me: Will taking the Xbox away magically improve their recall? Will keeping them in for recess suddenly boost their brain’s ability to remember multistep instructions? Of course not. All punishment does is cre
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To punish or not that is the question and the answer is …punish if you want shame to be your child’s story . Teach if you want to give your child wings to soar . Punish if you don’t believe that adhd is a skill deficit . Teach if you believe that ADHD is skill deficit . Punish if you think that will magically teach skills. Teach if you understand 60 years of research . Nor don’t send messages but how will they learn and I am not letting them get away with it . Tell me when your child was learnin
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🚫 5 Things That Look Like Defiance in ADHD Kids — But Aren’t 🚫 (Read this before you punish your child for “not listening”) You’re not crazy for thinking your child is defiant. You’re just not being shown what’s actually going on underneath the behaviour. Because what looks like won’t is usually can’t. Let’s decode it 👇 1️⃣ “They ignore me.” They’re not ignoring you — they didn’t hear you. The ADHD brain filters information differently. If it doesn’t light up the “interest” or “urgency” netwo
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The number one mistake we make about accommodations for our ADHD kids 🚨 Parents of kids with ADHD: The #1 mistake I see over and over again is this 👇 You fight like a lion 🦁 to get school accommodations — and then you forget to fight for them at home. 🏠 Here’s the truth no one tells you: ADHD doesn’t clock out at 3 p.m. ⏰ It impacts your child 24/7 — at home, with homework, chores, even getting ready in the morning. You ask for extra time at school… but do you actually give it at home? You a
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🔥 3 Things You Need to Do Immediately to Stop the Behaviour Chaos in Your Home No. 1 — Stop Parenting the “Lazy, Rude, Defiant, Unmotivated” Child Because that child doesn’t actually exist. That’s just the version you SEE when your child is dysregulated, overwhelmed, and running on an empty executive-function tank. When you parent the behaviour, you show up in FIX–CONTROL mode. When you parent the child beneath the behaviour, everything changes. No. 2 — Repair Their Shattered Self-Esteem ADHD k
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Best accommodations for students with adhd . I know you are thinking extra time preferential seating quite room to write tests and yes these are important but these are not enough . The number one accommodation is checking for understanding. Please don’t ask for it like that it is much more nuanced than that and when you join Bootcamp I show you exactly what that means . So yip now would be the time to join Bootcamp before October nightmare arrives and everything falls apart . We start on Wednes
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